Thursday, December 5, 2024

A Journey of Another Kind.....

Winter is coming with a lot of things that depress people....shorter days with darkness coming earlier and earlier and for some, seasonal affective disorder, a depressive state caused partly by lack of sunlight and is considered to be a form of depression. Sparky doesn't have S.A.D., so she doesn't mind the shorter days, or even the cold and dreary ones. She loves winter, snow and the brisk temperatures. She loves being outside in the cold! She loves the holiday season. She's weird about loving winter...(that's what Eldo always says, lol). So, time for one last 18 mile bike ride on the Pumpkinvine Bike Trail before putting the bike away for the season. Here is a photo of the last hurrah of the beautiful fall we had here in northwest Indiana.
There were even some roses still blooming on a bush near the trail in mid-November.

The seed pods are settling down for a long winter's nap....


The Amish will be still walking the country roads for church services, but Sparky won't see them again till spring....
The foxtails have come and gone.....

Shortly before Thanksgiving, Sparky and Eldo decided to check out the Canadian Pacific Holiday Train that travels through limited portions of the US every year to raise money for food banks. The cars are decorated with flashing light scenes and holiday music plays. In some towns at a decent hour, the train will stop and put on a show for train watchers. There is no cost except for a donation of food items. The route just happens to pass through northwest Indiana every year, but you have to get up somewhere between 2:30 A.M. and 4:00 A.M to see it. Eldo is a train buff. Sparky is a little kid at heart, so this year, even though Sparky was working the next day, we decided to get up and go see it in Goshen, IN. Although we got up at 2:45 A.M., the train was an hour late.  And it was shorter than we thought it would be! It was there and gone in less than two minutes, but it was COOL. 

In mid November, right before Thanksgiving, Sparky got some bad health news...She has breast cancer. She had been waiting for the shoe to drop for the last couple of years, since it is in her family. There was no evidence on a mammogram last year, but this year was a little different, something suspicious. The doctors have always said that she has extremely dense tissue and mammograms were tough to read. This time an ultrasound was ordered and two highly suspicious malignant lumps were found. After a biopsy in early December, the diagnosis is 1. invasive lobular carcinoma with a tumor of at least 16mm in the breast, and 2. with metastatic carcinoma in a lymph node. From here, a consult with a surgeon soon. It's going to be a long journey. Sparky will probably not say much here on the blog for awhile, but will post an update now and then. 

We still might post things we do for fun, that's important! Like go see the holiday lights in Shipshewanna and other places in the next couple of weeks. Sparky is going to go see her daughter in Houston before all the you-know-what hits the fan, and Eldy has a cruise with his son's family that happened to coincide at the same time, so we are going to enjoy ourselves and the holiday before settling in for the long haul.

Thank you for reading and following us....

            Best wishes for a happy holidays and quality family time....

                                    Sparky and Eldo


15 comments:

  1. Oh my! So very sorry for that diagnosis. I pray that the coming days will not be stressful for you and Eldy as you make decisions. Our prayers are with you.

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  2. We will keep you in our prayers

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  3. Oh, Jeannie. I'm so sorry you had that finding. Thank goodness it was caught early! I'm sending you hugs and lots of love to help you go through the upcoming days. Your blog is fabulous! Photos beautiful as always! Enjoy your visit with your daughter. Hope Eldy has a nice cruise.
    You are in the prayers of many friends.

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    1. thank you, Jill...it is comforting to know that....

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  4. Love you, Sis. We will get through this. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

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  5. I am so sorry to hear the bad news. I shall add you to my prayer list. May your path be smooth and accompanied by good friends and family. Moral is super important. Hugs from France.

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    1. Thank you for your prayers....I really appreciate them.

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  6. Never great that kind of news but you have been proactive ,so early days .The medical capabilities are so much advanced & certain you will befell taken care of.All the very best & you will have many cheering you on.

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    1. Thank you for your kind comments...

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  7. You are not alone that after being health conscience and doing all the right things, that these Tumors suddenly appear.
    Enjoy the Holidays before your journey begins.
    We'll be keeping you in our prayers and watching for any updates.

    It's about time.

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    1. Thank you for that....and thank you for still following!

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  8. We certainly will be keeping track and thinking of you through this process. We know of many success story's others have had on this journey and we hope to add you to that list. Much love is sent your way today and always.

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    1. Thank you, Barb. I hope I get to be on that list.

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